Why?

Why must I always be the friend that no one is willing to take a chance with? They know how amazing I am, but are too afraid to have something better. I'm not sure what my purpose is being in this position, but it has always eluded me. Although it didn't bother me nearly as much while I was in the Navy. I didn't really have a ton of spare time to dwell on it like I did in high school and now, being in college. Hmmm. Life's mysteries are confusing to me. I suppose that goes without saying though, since they are mysteries until they are discovered and understood. I would just like this one to be done and over with already.